Open House
Open House is generally the most casual day of recruitment. At certain schools (such as Furman), Panhellenic will give out shirts to every PNM to wear. In Fall recruitment, a PNM would typically wear the provided shirt, some form of shorts or casual skirt, and comfortable shoes. During this round, I wore the provided shirt, jeans, and converse. Keep things casual but presentable.
outfit 1: Panhellenic shirt // white denim skirt // converse // earrings
outfit 2: Panhellenic shirt // Lilly Pulitzer shorts // Jack Rogers // Sheila Hoops
outfit 3: Panhellenic shirt // Pink Bow Shorts // pearl earrings // shoes
Philanthropy
Philanthropy round is probably going to be a bit more formal than Open House, but still casual. At Furman, Open House and Philanthropy round are combined, so I am honestly not super sure the exact things to wear for this round. I researched a bit for other schools, so I’ll include what I found most helpful from those in this post. A nice blouse and jeans or a casual skirt is a great option for this round. Treat your outfit in this round like you are looking cute for school.
outfit 2: top // shorts // sunglasses // shoes
outfit 3: top // shorts // shoes
Sisterhood Round
Sisterhood Round is a step up from both Open House and Philanthropy round. This is where you will start wearing nicer clothes, ones you would probably wear to church or a casual banquet. Dresses or a nice skirt and nice blouse are recommended. I wore a skirt and sweater during this, which is something I would wear to church.
outfit 1: dress // shoes // earrings
outfit 2: dress // shoes // Sheila Hoops
outfit 3: top // skirt // shoes // earrings
Preference Tea is the most formal day of recruitment. At these rounds, you will want to wear a more formal dress (such as a cocktail dress). At some schools, your recruitment counselors will tell you to steer clear of certain color dresses. Many sororities will wear black or navy dresses during preference tea, so they ask that you wear dresses of any other color but those. If this is the case, just be respectful of the recruitment team’s wishes!
outfit 1: dress // shoes // pearl earrings
outfit 2: dress // shoes // earrings
outfit 3: dress // shoes // Sheila Hoops
I hope this guide has helped you figure out a general idea of what to wear during rush. Of course every school is different, so make sure to ask your recruitment counselors what they recommend you wear. Many schools will provide a guide for outfits, so follow that entirely, and then come back here for specific outfits that might match up with your school’s guidelines. If you have any questions or need help finding something for rush, please shoot me email! And just a note- don’t feel like you need to buy anything for rush. I bought absolutely nothing for rush, as I just used items already in my closet. If a school is doing values-based recruitment (recruiting based on values and character rather than appearance), your outfit will not determine which sorority you will join. These outfit guidelines are put in place at schools so that you know the level of formality that the sorority members will be wearing, and so that the PNMs outfits are appropriate for those rounds. Just relax about outfits- it won’t be as a big deal as you might think! And with that being said, make sure that you are confident in your outfits and that the outfits reflect your own personal style, not those of a sorority you are hoping to join. You don’t have to dress “preppy” or “insert any other type of style here” because you think all the other PNMs will dress that way or because you think a sorority will like you more. Dress in your own style and be confident in what you are wearing.
Good luck with rush!